The chewing gum, the shower head, the mirrors all these objects are part of our daily life, and yet we have never considered them in an erotic light. It is high time that we give a little touch to our sex life without investing too much in sex toys. Here are some tips for making your homemade erotic objects yourself. Let go!

As tantric practice shows, buy a dildo in the sex shop – this is only half the battle. Women face these difficulties when they find themselves “face to face” with the purchase.

So, rubber hulks in your hands. Only calm. The main thing is not to try to repeat what you once saw in porn movies such as sex toy for role play. Adult video actors are much more trained in the use of dildos both figuratively and in the most direct sense. Someone to whom, and they certainly have not been threatened with labor blisters for a long time unlike you. Here are the basics to know about how to squirt with a dildo.

First meeting

Before the first use of a dildo, many must be morally and physically prepared. Especially if you chose the biggest dildo you just found in the sex shop. As they say, do not go to the grocery store hungry.

At first, while you are not yet sure of your reactions, it is better to use soft latex or gel “penis” that is not very large with a sliding surface. And even better – a dildo made of material “living body” (“cyberskin”), which quickly picked up the desired temperature from your hands due to the unique properties of this material.

At first, it is better not to use a dildo too actively. For those who have not previously been personally acquainted with such devices, moderation and gradualness will be more appropriate. Even if you consider yourself extremely experienced in sex, like experiments in bed – you should not be in a hurry anyway.

Preparation before the “launch”

In order to avoid micro trauma when using a dildo, prepare your body for the upcoming sexual experiment. Before using a dildo do not forget to generously lubricate the genitals. Lubricate the large and small labia, clitoris, the entrance to the vagina. The lubricant inside the vagina itself will not interfere either – after all it is a very vulnerable organ. Lubricate the crotch – the area between the lower edge of the lips and the anus. If you use an anal dildo, of course, you need to maximize and lubricate the anus. The abundance of lubricant will protect the delicate mucosa from abrasions and microtraumas with intensive use of the vibrator.

In the process of lubrication, you will undoubtedly already be quite excited. Use the lubrication process both for pleasure and preparation for the process, and to search for the most sensitive erogenous zones. In these zones, you can first “walk” with a dildo. You should be as relaxed and excited as possible. After that, try to “run” the dildo inside.

You may be pleasantly surprised, shocked or, conversely, disappoint with the intensity of the sensations received for the first time. Remember that maximum pleasure can be achieved only in the case of constant use of a dildo. In addition, you must try different dildos: from different materials, different shapes and sizes – in order to find “your”.

Properly selected size and the ability to change the angle of the dildo, as well as expand it along the axis, allow you to fill the entire vagina with it and ensure intimate contact with the cervical part of the uterus, which is almost impossible to achieve with the introduction of the penis. If models with branches are used to stimulate the clitoris and anus, with testicles (the touch of which many women instinctively expect), then the intensity pleasure delivered to a woman cannot be compared to ordinary sexual intercourse.

Stand in a pose

A little bit about the most convenient and safe sex positions with the use of a dildo.

The most effective posture: you stand with your back to the seat of the chair, and then, spreading your legs slightly and squatting, begin to slide the vagina along the dildo, which can be fixed motionless on the chair with the head up or held by a man. If your “toy” is long enough, then you can hold the dildo by the free end and, with the movements of your hands, to excite organs to your liking in any position of the body.

It is even better if you use a dildo with a partner. It will be a great addition to traditional sex. For the first test, when you still do not know your capabilities, you can also recommend one of the simplest postures: in the knee-elbow position, you hold the headboard and, moving the pelvis, push the vagina as deeply as possible onto the dildo held by your partner.

By the way, I want to draw your attention to the fact that after repeated use of the dildo, you will begin to notice that your sexual sensations, even with normal intimacy, become more vivid and pleasant.

Dildo: body benefits

At best, the dildo is ready to use for a change in sex. With this, few people think about the fact that this sex toy has truly unique, healthy properties.

During intercourse with the use of an artificial penis, a deep and at the same time gentle massage of the internal organs of a woman takes place. This is due to the fact that the pressure of the dildo is regulated by hand, and its movement can be calculated with millimeter accuracy. This increases the sensitivity and muscle tone of the genital organs, which cannot but affect the quality of sex with a partner.

Proper use of dildo is accompanied by very useful for the body ebbs and flows of blood to the pelvic organs, which prevents stagnation and the diseases they cause. In addition, regular use of this sex toy causes the discharge of high concentrations of sex hormones in the blood.

Using a dildo alone with oneself allows a woman to relax, drop complexes and try a variety of poses. This will allow not only to get to know yourself and your body better, but also to improve the physical tone of muscles that are not involved in the usual sex with a partner. Also improves the general and local lymph and blood circulation.

Of course, the indisputable advantage is that it is impossible to get pregnant from a dildo or become infected with any disease (of course, subject to hygiene standards).

With a dildo you will not experience any worries about the lack of or very fast orgasm. When a person is not afraid to bring inconvenience to his partner, he is able to completely relax and concentrate on his feelings.

The dildo can be changed without any remorse. One does not fit – you can buy another: more or less, longer or shorter, narrower or wider, vaginal or anal, gel or silicone … Almost any need can be met. If you pick up a dildo with the help of an experienced sexologist, the subject will actually be the size of your vagina.

Finally, sex toys allow you to experience the highest physical and psychological pleasure, which is not always possible with ordinary sex.