What are your thoughts on swinger parties? Do you see them as an orgy? Do you enjoy group sex, or is that too kinky for you? What’s it like to go to a swinger’s club for the first time, and would you prefer not?

 

Keep reading. Here is the ultimate guide for swinger parties!

What Makes an Orgy Exciting? 

It sure is a taboo topic, but if it tickles your mind just a little bit, swingers would like to meet you and your partner. Horny strangers around the two of you who want to pleasure you in exchange for the same thing. How does this sound?

 

The best part is the excitement of the experiment. You never know what to expect, and you can choose whoever you want to satisfy you. The moaning and groaning, the naked bodies, the satisfied minds — all of it floating in the air waiting for you to grab it!

Making Sure Everyone’s Getting Laid Tonight 

A large room, many beds, and even more naked people — that’s what swinger parties are. How do people even organize these parties? Who are the people who organize orgies, and why are they so fun?

 

They call the folks who organize these kinds of events “sex-positive” people. They do this all the time. A party can be anywhere — in someone’s house or a legit sex dungeon. The most common place would be a big hotel room, with enough beds for everyone.

 

Enough space, of course, is of high importance since people wouldn’t want to feel crowded. The organization requires a lot of logistics. First of all, there should be some essential stuff like condoms and lube everywhere. The host should also provide snacks, drinks, and clean linens.

 

Are you in for this kind of fun? Swingers parties are the best way of finding a potential swinging partner. So, whether you like the idea of visiting a club for swingers or you prefer going to the host’s house or hotel room because of the discreteness — it’s up to you!

 

People at these parties are open-minded, ready to talk, and most importantly, they are ready for you. Start exploring around and get ready for some wild fun!

How Is Orgy Different From Swing Parties?

If you don’t like the idea of five or more people having sex together (with you somewhere in between), that’s perfectly fine. But swing parties are slightly different from orgies.

 

While the orgy stands for several people sexually interacting with each other, swinger parties are more controlled. 

 

Do you want to try it with only one person? Or two? Maybe, you only want to watch? You want to find the perfect match? Make your fantasy come to life? At swing parties, you hang out with people, chat with them, have fun in any way you want!

 

The best thing about these parties is that you control how far everything goes. You have control over both the start and the finish line.

Party Cups Aren’t the Only Thing in Swing Parties

We mentioned that swingers use condoms and lube, but there are other essentials they often require. They usually enjoy sex toys too. They’ve become good friends with toys such as sex swings, strap-on dildos, Sybians, double-ended dildos, Hitachi wands, and plenty of others.

 

If you’ve read or watched “50 Shades of Grey,” don’t think you’ve seen everything just yet! Swingers are using way more exciting toys than

 handcuffs.

 

The sex swing has by far been one of the best entertainments at the swing parties, pun intended. They let you play all kinds of games with the submissive participants in the swing.

 

A strap-on dildo is for dominant women to use on their girlfriends — or their boyfriends to hit their P-spot. A double-ended dildo is yet another lady-friendly toy. 

  

The magical Hitachi wand is a twelve-inches long massager with a rubber hand one person can use for clitoral stimulation of another person. 

 

Sybian is one of the most expensive sex toys on the market – for a good reason! It comes with multiple attachments, which lead to all kinds of pleasure for women.

 

At swing parties, you can find and watch many bisexual girls there pleasuring themselves. If you get lucky, they may invite you to enter their personal space for pleasure and let you use some toys on them.

Some Are Just Explorers

Try to be kind to everyone. Don’t rush into anything. Some people at swinger parties are just explorers. They’re not looking for sex, but they’re just curious. While it won’t hurt anyone to get to know them if you like them, don’t push them until they’re ready.

 

Some couples would also like to enjoy themselves in front of others, without involving anyone else. Being in the same room as other couples minding their own business naked might be a turn-on for them. So, be careful when approaching, and stay thoughtful of anyone’s opinion.

The Party’s Not Over Yet

If you liked it, move on. Find out what works for you. Find new places for swingers. Clubs and private homes — it all smells like love. There are likely many parties like this in your area without you knowing about it. Do not be shy, but inquire.

 

Most clubs have “open” viewing rooms where people can watch, but other rooms at the same club can be “private” where people are not allowed to watch. Which idea do you like better?

 

Get ready, get organized, agree on what you two want together. And then, enjoy it! You only live once, so give yourself the best experience.